“Ordinary Wear and Tear,” by Thomas McGuane
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Started April 20, 2026
She broke Carl’s heart, he thought, but she’s not breaking mine
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“Ordinary Wear and Tear,” by Thomas McGuane
The New Yorker (United States) | Apr 19, 2026
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The idea that one can remain unscathed by emotional turmoil in relationships is unrealistic and potentially harmful.
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Emotional resilience in relationships is vital; understanding that heartbreak is a part of life can foster personal growth.
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Coping with heartbreak should be seen as an opportunity for self-discovery rather than an obstacle to future relationships.
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Overemphasizing personal resilience can lead to emotional detachment, preventing genuine connections in future relationships.
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