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Started January 20, 2026

Relationship advice from the internet: on Friday Afternoon Sex Clubs, adoption, and synchronized waterskiing

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The New Yorker (United States) | Jan 19, 2026

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CLAIM Posted by will Jan 20, 2026
Synchronized waterskiing can strengthen team dynamics, offering a unique way for couples to bond and communicate outside traditional settings.
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CLAIM Posted by will Jan 20, 2026
Friday Afternoon Sex Clubs foster open conversations about intimacy, helping couples explore their desires in a safe and fun environment.
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CLAIM Posted by will Jan 20, 2026
Adoption should be prioritized over casual relationships, as it provides loving homes to children in need rather than focusing on adult desires.
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CLAIM Posted by will Jan 20, 2026
The concept of sex clubs undermines the seriousness of intimate relationships, promoting a culture of casual encounters over committed partnerships.
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CLAIM Posted by will Jan 20, 2026
Exploring diverse relationship models, like sex clubs, can enhance understanding and acceptance of different intimacy practices in modern society.
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